Torn Down

I took this picture yesterday with a totally different idea in mind, definitely not a blog post, maybe a little something on my Instagram but not a full out post. The plan was to promote my Thirty-One business because all the fall is here and it is so pretty and goes great with the sugar free cinnamon Dunkin I was sipping while starting my VIP group post.

But then I looked closer and I could see the sadness I am carrying in those eyes hidden behind those sunglasses that were totally not needed because the skies are gray. Those glasses were holding the tears that were in my eyes and the redness around my eyebrows back from the view of the people who support my business. The people who support my family by buying bags and people who have become part of something more for me. I was trying to hide and just push another product.

Instead, I’ve decided that photo needs to go beyond my group or my Instagram followers. The chapter of my story right now needs to be shared.

Torn Down

On a Sunday filled with the goodness of hearing a sweet friend sing my favorite song while birds chirped and clouds passed overhead as my church family worshipped in the park, I was facing so much doubt. No. Struggling with so much doubt.

On a Sunday when I should feel built up, I was torn down three times. The battle with my spirit is so real right now. I’m ready to give up my fight and come off my wall. But when I’m told how I should be, it is tough. Whether it is the clothes I wear, the choices I make, or the hair over my lip, I shouldn’t feel like I have to answer to anyone.

After two incidents happened to tear me down, my husband gave me a break and we canceled plans so I could get some alone time…and that is when I let a third person tell me who I should be – a woman without hair on her face. I had no idea my eyebrows, lips, or chin needed the attention they got and while I am thankful that I got cleaned up, it also hurt and I’m not talking about the pain of wax peeling 10+ tears of light blonde hairs off the tenderest parts of my skin.

I’m talking about a deep pain where you try to be the right person for everyone over and over. Where you try to conform to some mold of what your society or religion thinks you should be when in the end what matters is having things right with God the Father, Jesus the Son, and Holy Spirit. Nothing else matters, but oh can it hurt.

In the midst of this, I found myself listening to “Good and Loved” over and over, trying to remind myself that I am loved but goodness is it hard right now. And this is just one day in almost a year of painful attacks – some I haven’t talked about but maybe need to so people can understand how much their opinions hurt.

As much as I want to be a good role model to my children and the people around me, the truth is that I can’t. I am an imperfect person who makes mistakes. And right now, I’m learning that sometimes I have to dig deep in these moments to find God’s grace and goodness…but it is there.

If you’re in the depths of something, just remember that God set the stars and planets exactly where they are and He loves you. It is not easy (my hands are raised high in agreement), but lean into God’s love and know He cares for you deeply. That is what I am doing, even in these hard moments. So Will I.

Disney’s THE LION KING: PNC Broadway in Pittsburgh

Disclaimer: In exchange for sharing details about theupcoming Disney’s THE LION KING Performance coming to Pittsburgh through Disney Theatrical Productions and Pittsburgh Cultural Trust, I received tickets to attend and review the show. All opinions are 100% my own.

“It means no worries…” – a song I so needed to hear on Thursday night. The past few months have not been normal and to be honest, taking time out of a busy week to go to a show was a little crippling for me. But hearing that song during Disney’s THE LION KING musical in Pittsburgh was absolute perfect timing.

Disney’s THE LION KING: PNC Broadway in Pittsburgh

For all the details on how you can attend a performance of Disney’s THE LION KING, head over to my Pittsburgh family-focused blog, ‘lil Burghers

Let me just throw this out here right away.

Every single detail covered – even the STEPS to the stage!

When the cast opened the evening with “Circle of Life”, I cried. Like big drippy tears. Yinz, it took until the last season of “The Parenthood” and “The Office” and “How I Met Your Mother” to cry. Although I do bawl every single episode of “This is Us”. But I cried big ugly tears in my symphony level seat at Benedum Center listening to “Circle of Life”. There, I said it!

But for real, who wouldn’t? This opening number was pure magic. The sounds, the lighting, the costumes. I really can’t explain it other than I felt right there at Pride Rock and was on the edge of my seat for the rest of the night hoping I’d again get to feel the whisk of the elephant costume brushing past us or see the puppeter who brought Zazu into the theater or feel the breath of the singers (yes, four seats in I could feel their powerful voices on me). And I cried.

If you were alive in the 90s, you know the story so I’m not going into details on it, but what you do need to know is that if you know the story, the songs are in your heart and will be so loud in your head – try not to find yourself singing along if you don’t want the others in your row to hear you singing. No shame here, I definitely sang “Hakuna Matata” and even “I Just Can’t Wait to Be King” along with the cast. But what you will find is that you lean in close to hear the voices of Mufasa, Scar, Nala, and Simba as they have solos that are not part of my memory of the movie I loved as a child. This is part of the magic – I promise! 

Greg went with me and experienced his first Broadway show. He also had all the feels about the cast, dynamics, and orchestra. It was really a wonderful production and the perfect way to have a date night with my husband (though I’d totally go back with the older kids – the show is recommended for ages 8 and up).

Thank you for bringing this beloved tale to Pittsburgh, Cultural Trust!


As the world’s #1 musical, Disney’s THE LION KING comes to Pittsburgh as a presentation by the Pittsburgh Cultural Trust and Broadway Across America as part of the 2019-2020 PNC Broadway in Pittsburgh Series. The production will be at the Benedum Center from September 4-29, 2019. For tickets and more information, visit



After 21 landmark years on Broadway, The Lion King continues ascendant as one of the most popular stage musicals in the world.  Since its premiere on November 13, 1997, 25 global productions have been seen by more than 100 million people.  Produced by Disney Theatrical Productions (under the direction of Thomas Schumacher), The Lion King has made theatrical history with six productions worldwide running 15 or more years.  Performed in nine different languages (English, Japanese, German, Korean, French, Dutch, Spanish, Mandarin and Portuguese), productions of The Lion King can currently be seen on Broadway; London’s West End; Hamburg; Tokyo; Madrid; Scheveningen, Holland; on tour across Japan and North America, with a separate production touring internationally, for a total of nine productions running concurrently across the globe.

Having played over 100 cities in 20 countries on every continent except Antarctica, The Lion King’s worldwide gross exceeds that of any film, Broadway show or other entertainment title in box office history.

The Lion King won six 1998 Tony Awards®:  Best Musical, Best Scenic Design (Richard Hudson), Best Costume Design (Julie Taymor), Best Lighting Design (Donald Holder), Best Choreography (Garth Fagan) and Best Direction of a Musical.  The Lion King has also earned more than 70 major arts awards including the 1998 NY Drama Critics Circle Award for Best Musical, the 1999 Grammy® for Best Musical Show Album, the 1999 Evening Standard Award for Theatrical Event of the Year and the 1999 Laurence Olivier Awards for Best Choreography and Best Costume Design.

Source: Pittsburgh Cultural Trust

Chorizo Bacon Waffle with Chili Butter

This post contains affiliate links. This recipe was brought to us by Huron House Bed and Breakfast. 

I know, earlier this week I was telling you about being good and going back to Keto, but this recipe has been in my inbox and I just can’t help but to share it. Besides, maybe you can use a recipe from Keto Bread to make that waffle keto friendly or substitute in some almond flour for regular flour? I mean, c’mon with this one!

Chorizo Bacon Waffle
source: Huron House

Chorizo Bacon Waffle with Chili Butter


  • Waffle
  • 1 package of chorizo
  • 1 ¾ cup of AP flour (looking to sub in almond flour? This is my favorite!)
  • 1 tbsp of baking powder
  • ¼ tsp of salt
  • 1 egg
  • 1 ¼ cup of milk
  • 1 full bunch of green onions, diced
  • 1 cup sharp shredded cheddar cheese
  • 8 pieces of bacon
  • Chili Butter
  • 4 tbsp unsalted butter
  • 1 can of diced green chilies


  1. First, plug in your waffle iron (this one is a little pricy but so good for families that make waffles on the regular!) and let it heat up.
  2. In a medium skillet over medium heat, cook the chorizo for about 2-minutes or until it starts to releaseits juices. Set aside on a plate.

    Chorizo Bacon Waffle with Chili Butter
    Source: Huron House
  3. Next, fry up the bacon slices, let cool and chop into crumbles.
  4. Assemble your waffle batter. In a large bowl combine the flour, baking powder, salt and egg. Mix slowly and gradually add in the milk. Be careful not to overmix, batter should be thick and slightly lumpy. Once mixed, fold in the chorizo, bacon crumbles, green onions and cheddar cheese.
  5. To make the chili butter, place the slightly softened butter in a bowl and add the diced green chilis. (green chilies are spicy so you can add as much or as little as you would like). With a mixer beat the butter for about 2 minutes.
  6. To make the waffle, place a half a cup of batter into the center of the waffle iron, close the lid and cook according to your iron directions or until waffle is golden brown.
  7. Top the waffles with chili butter, cheddar cheese, bacon crumbles and green onions.

*Also great with slightly warmed maple syrup


About Huron House

Located on the beach of Lake Huron between Tawas and Oscoda, the Huron House is an award-winning 14 room luxury Bed and Breakfast lakefront destination with stunning Lake Huron views and direct beach access. Huron House features King beds, private decks, fireplaces, personal hot tubs and Jacuzzi tubs, and daily breakfast delivered to guestrooms. Privacy and individual attention define the Huron House experience.

The Huron House Bed and Breakfast is located at 3124 North US-23, Oscoda, Michigan 48750. To make a reservation call (989) 739-9255 or visit

Keto Bread: Eating Your Favorite Foods on Keto

Disclaimer: I received a review copy of Keto Bread in exchange for sharing this post with you. This post also contains affiliate links – when you shop through them I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. All opinions are 100% my own.

Hey there, I’m a carb addict and I know it…how about you?

What I also know (thanks to several cycles of Whole30 that ending up pointing me to give Keto a try) but that I kept feeling like something was missing even though I knew I had gluten issues. Every time I’ve cycled out of Keto (uh, mistake) I would turn to my old favorites, pizza and pretzels, and be so very sick.

Before our vacation, I went back to Keto to jump start my feeling better and now I’m back at it again with a new resource in hand – the “Keto Bread” book!

Keto Bread

This book was written by Faith Gorsky and Lara Clevenger — the Keto Queens ( — and gives us 100 delicious options to enjoy some of our old favorites while sticking to the Keto plan. Think bagels, pizza crusts, and some fall breads like pumpkin and apple and zucchini (YESSSSS)! Clearly, I am really excited about the Pretzel Bites and Spiced Beef Empanadas found in the snacks section.

I don’t love making things with a lot of ingredients, but this collection of recipes is easy enough to follow and uses the basic staples of keto (also explained in the introductory chapter which gave me some great new tips).

In my Keto cycles over the past two years, I’ve not been used to substituting bread other than my pizza crust; however, it’s clear that I’ve been missing it. The substitutes in this book will help aid in what I hope will be an even more successful keto journey this time around!

Want a copy yourself? You will be able to pick up a copy of Keto Bread on Amazon starting September 10 – pre-order it here

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About the Authors of Keto Bread


What a Month

Let’s start with a caution warning. It is going to get a little real around here today.  I’ll also be talking about my current physical health and it could be a bit TMI for you guys – be warned. This post contains affiliate links. 


The month of June 2019 just might go down as the month that really resonated with my word of the year, COURAGE. At first, I thought it was going to be rough because of some physical stuff I was going through, but oh I had no idea what was to come in that first week.

Let’s start with the physical – I might circle back to the mental/emotional struggle this month has been soon, but it’s not exactly my story to tell. No, it is not my knee. On May 28, I found out I just have a big wad of arthritis in it. Surprise, it hasn’t really been bugging me now that this has happened…

I have an ovarian cyst.

Okay, so ovarian cysts are actually very common in women – most women won’t even know that they have them and they usually cause no harm. In my case, I have one that started to cause some issues on May 29.

It began as a cramp in my right side about 30-40 minutes after eating, so I started to think that it was something with my gallbladder. I stopped eating the Keto diet and the pain didn’t go away – it just got worse. On June 3, I started spotting (3 days after my last cycle had ended) and by Tuesday was having one of my heaviest periods ever (hello, KotexU AllNighter Ultra Thin Pads in bulk) that lasted for eleven days. And by Tuesday night,  I was in so much pain that I could barely walk or talk – so we headed to the ER and waited for some tests.

Although a CT Scan showed the important results, the ER couldn’t find the source of my pain and sent me home with a diagnosis for an enlarged spleen. I was back the next day – so cold, the pain had moved to a focused area on my left side of my lower back, and I could barely breathe. This time I was told that my CT Scan showed a 5.7 cm ovarian cyst and that I needed to talk to gynecology – discharged again.

By Friday, I was done and needed to get more attention so we went to West Penn’s ER where they told me I was constipated (duh, I’d been on percocet for four days) and oh BTW have endometrial polyps. This was said oh so casually on my discharge that I lost my cool and begged to see someone from gynecology to tell me what that meant.

When you go back to my original report, you would see that I have an 11.5mm endometrial lining and polyps + an ovarian cyst that was measuring between 5.7 and 6.7 cm on the two different hospital machines. The next a gyno could see me was July through AHN or late June with ABC Women’s. Through prayer, I got in last Friday (6/13) and was told we need to get surgery scheduled + a D&C (that procedure was recommended at the West Penn ER but they wanted to wait for the cyst to grow or burst).

At this point, the soonest I can be seen in the OR is July 18. That’s another 29 days of pain. And when I tell you pain, I mean this 10,500+ steps a day mama is struggling to get 3,000 steps a day. I have to hold back tears on hour long conference calls. I can’t pick up the twins without feeling strained. And did I mention that I am tired. Super tired. Sigh.

I know that God is in control and is fighting for me – would you have a prayer or two for me throughout the next few weeks for healing?

Training Tuesday: The Half-termath

Three weeks have flown by in the time since the 2019 DICK’S Sporting Goods Pittsburgh Marathon weekend of events and although my duties as an official blogger for them are over, I’m still singing the praises of the event and the time my family had there. Does that mean I’ve been running? Well, that’s why you’re reading, right? This post contains affiliate links – if you click through to Amazon and shop there, as an Amazon Associate I earn a commisison at no extra charge to you. 

Missed my wrap-up? It’s in a three-part series starting here

Training Tuesday: The Half-termath

After we completed all the fun of ‘marathon weekend’, the family and I packed up the van in front of the Omni William Penn (which BTW – thanks to all of you readers and runners, I got to stay in as a prize, THANK YOU!) and hit 279 headed for I-80 and Wisconsin Dells (one of our top vacation spots). We didn’t make it far.

I was wrapped in ice and trying to enjoy my Starbucks when I sniffed the air and smelled something burning. We thought that our oil change on Wednesday had taken care of this issue (oil built up on a gasket), but nope. I asked Greg if he could confirm my thoughts and he said yes…so I brought up a battery light issue Arianna had mentioned over the weekend. Basically, our alternator was shot and we needed to get off the road ASAP or it could have ended badly.

But we had worked so hard to get to this vacation – we both have been working basically non-stop without a real “no stress” vacation – you know, one where both adults love what they do and aren’t job hunting/studying for exams/having to be on call just in case something goes wrong at work. There was NOTHING we had to do but relax and enjoy family time. Nothing.

So I quickly searched for the lowest priced rental vehicle I could find at the Pittsburgh Airport and we turned Waze’s route from Christmas Mountain Village to the Enterprise Rental desk. Our van would sit at the airport until we got back with a tow truck a week later and we loaded all of our luggage (way too much, we pack the kitchen sink) into a rental Suburban (aka my dream vehicle) and finally hit the road.

I wasn’t feeling getting any workouts in over vacation. My knee hurt from the running and travel and I just wanted to relax, so I did. Once we got home and had to deal with getting back to work, I decided to do some old Bob Harper DVD‘s and walk from the parking garage to work (1 mile) on the nice mornings. I just wasn’t ready to run again.

Then last Tuesday I visited the orthopedic surgeon praying with everything I had in me that they’d approve an MRI. Nope. This girl has arthritis. That’s what held me back! But friends – I won’t sugar coat it. It’s A LOT of arthritis and it is painful – I’m not being a wuss or trying to say that being cautious wasn’t smart. I just have had a lot of trauma to my right knee (four skin-breaking falls that I can remember) and am getting older. It’s my new reality!

So, I basked in that and finally cleaned up my Altras and headed out to the trail on Thursday evening. It was HOT, I’d worked and had a long week (windows replaced in the whole house, Marathon Volunteer Appreciation event/Pirate game, worship practice) BUT I FELT SO GOOD. I even pulled off a 30 second negative split from mile 1 to mile 2. I’m totally going the Galloway method for awhile! 

This new reality is paying off. Being back to working out for two weeks and solid keto eating (though I did NOT restrict myself on Sunday) and I see and feel a difference.

What’s Next?

You didn’t think I was giving up, did you? HA! No way. I was waiting to hear the results from my appointment last week, but I think that my summer/fall will include:

What are you looking for as your next (or maybe even first!!!) running event?

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon: Part 3 of 3

The post below is part of a series of posts about the DICK’S Sporting Goods Pittsburgh Marathon weekend of events for which I have been selected to be a 2019 Pittsburgh Marathon official blogger. I’ve received my race registration fee in exchange for promotion of the event. All opinions are 100% my own.  This post also contains affiliate links. 

There is NO WAY that the DICK’S Sporting Goods Pittsburgh Marathon weekend was over a week ago, is there? As I walked through the city on my Monday morning commute (a week AFTER the Monday after the Marathon) it still felt like black and gold yinzers should be running those streets. Not sure how I’m going to survive until the next big race, anyone else? (Psst, if this is you, check out the official blog for tips from Karl Gruber on how to survive the post-race blues.)

So I left the city and headed out on vacation, stringing you all along with some teasers about the big official wrap up post. Finally, I’m ready to share my thoughts on the big day, race day! Let’s start with the VIP Experience because a little bit of it will be sprinkled in my recollection. (This is part three of three in my weekend wrap-up. You probably want to start with part one then two if this is the first post you’re reading!)

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: The VIP Experience (part three of three)

The day started with me and my VIP’s getting breakfast at the Wyndham Grand, right beside the Gear Check trucks (which BTW you don’t need if you’re VIP because they check gear from you at the breakfast). I’d been doing keto off and on but let my eating slide, so I was okay that our breakfast was primarily carbs – bagels, croissants, butters and jellies, yogurt – but I was cautious to not eat anything too heavy. I’ve had gluten issues, so I did my best with some cream cheese and peanut butter and a big bottle of NUUN Hydration’s Ginger Lemonade (which I have become “addicted” to and you can get at your local running store or on Amazon as I’ve linked above).

But the best part of this experience for me? The indoor bathrooms. Guys, I drink so much water then you add in race day nerves and I visit the porta-potties pre-race many times (5, maybe?). This year, I didn’t have to because I was using the indoor bathroom at the VIP experience (okay, I did use one once I got to corral C just to be sure) and I was able to make it all the back after the race to use it, too! Wins. And just in case you didn’t grab enough safety pins? They had you covered, too.

The morning was rainy, so Greg decided to keep the kids in the VIP room instead of watching me at the starting line. Soon he’d head over to the North Shore and Station Square, but this was a good place to camp out and wait. He snapped a quick picture of me before I headed out, dry and warm (and covered in prayer)!

Now this part is for the VIP Fans – the spectator tent at the Finish Line was full of food (I’m told bacon and breakfast burritos) and a covered area to watch the racers finish. Unfortunately, Greg didn’t snap a selfie of him and the kids, but they LOVED this part and he said it made the cost worth it for future events.

After the race, we all got to come back and be spoiled with a hotel catered lunch (pasta with chicken, sandwiches, cookies) and have a gathering spot that was warm and dry.

We’re so grateful for this part of our experience because it made the day smooth for my biggest fans and made me comfortable all race weekend knowing we had a place to meetup and relax.

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: Leg 1 of the Relay

After I left the VIP experience, it was time to head to Corral C to do my duty as Leg 1 (and Captain) of my work’s relay team.

Firstly, let’s address how cool my tank is (scroll up if you missed it). Logistically, I was a bit cranky about having to wear two bibs + the tracker + the bib on the back (this comes into play later in the race) but I figured I’d stick with one shirt because who wants to wear two wet shirts and/or risk not having your half marathon timer track your start?

It seemed like this year was the fastest start of the four years I’ve done the Half, maybe that’s because I was in Corral C? And speaking of fast, I started out a bit fast with the energy of walking past my client to the starting line and then being in a corral of mixed pace runners who were doing the relay (more on that in my “half” section of this post).

This was the first time I was on the “handoff” side of the relay – when I neared Exchange 1 on the North Shore, it felt like FOREVER until I got to the co-worker running the next leg. He was waiting very patiently (bless him!) for me (again, see below) with Greg and the kids. Since I was continuing on, it was a little awkward to get back into the sea of runners, but I managed.

All in all, my relay team did amazing. They took what they were handed from my slow leg 1 and ran with it, bringing our overall pace to 11:05/mile overall. Now bring us the tacos!!!

After I was done with my lunch, our final runner crossed the finish line and we met in the hotel lobby for some conversation and photos. After seeing it, I’ll admit that I have some work to do before our next race together!

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: The Half Marathon (Mile by Mile)

If you’ve been following along on my blog(s) for the last few years, you know that I like to try to recall the races by the miles. Let’s see how I do this year! (Note, I am wearing a FitBit Versa which is fine enough, but I didn’t use the running feature – it died by the end of the race with just the timer running sooo – OR my Nike+ to get my laps, but just know they were slow. Maybe next race I’ll have a Garmin Forerunner like this?)

Mile 0-1: This one was fast at first. I’d set out to do a 5-minute run followed by a 3-minute walk which went well in this mile; however, my first run was fast and I got some rocks in my shoes (Altra Escalante Racers in Tokyo, if you’re wondering) and had to work that out. My feet were soaked just a tenth of a mile in, too. I set my eyes on some other run/walkers just in case I needed to find some buddies.

Mile 1-2: This one was a little tough, emotionally. It might have been one of my faster miles because I had the folks from Corral D bearing down on my back (and they start like 8 minutes after C – sigh) and because I just wanted it to be done with. The first water station is right near my previous workplace and I thought I’d lose it, so I wanted to just run and run I did.

Mile 2-3: This was my old running path – Penn Avenue to the 16th Street Bridge. I love to hate this section of town. At one point someone from the 11-ish minute mile pace group yelled to me, “keep it up RELAY, just 2 miles to go”. Heh. What he didn’t know was that I had to keep on keeping on.

Mile 3-4: As I crested the hill from 16th Street Bridge, my knee gave out. It was slipping and popping and I slowed that 5/3 to a 4/2 and walked up the hill to East Ohio Street. There’s this energy on that section of the race (and a few downhills) that helps move things along and I tried desperately to feed off of that; however, I decided I was going to quit once I got to the exchange. Running with an injury isn’t worth it and I was hurting.

Mile 4-5: This mile starts out with the run up the hill to Urban Impact cheering us on. As “Old Church Choir” played from their station, I got the strength to run that hill and high five everyone I could along the way. I don’t honestly remember running past the Children’s Museum (did we?) because there was a section here where we cheered on one of the hand cart racers (and I stopped feeling sorry for myself).

Mile 5-…: I was quitting, don’t you remember? At 5.4 miles, you hit the relay exchange. As I said above, it felt like forever until Rick gave me my medal and I had Greg help me with my bib and tracker. I decided to stay on the course but told Greg it was going to be a LONG TIME until I could get back to him downtown. I ran away and then realized that I still had “RELAY” on my back so I had to turn back and ask Greg to rip that off. I didn’t want to be yelled at for not going through Exchange 2 or having my relay bib on the front! Logistics, you see.

Right after this exchange, medics were waiting with vaseline – the only such station I saw on the course – and I needed it. I was drenched and wearing a new shirt and slightly tighter than usual Fusion C3 Running Shorts. I’ve had three c-sections and a belly that was large > pregnant > larger > even more pregnant > flubby > flat as a board > pregnant with twins > torn open ten days after surgery > flubby fit > swollen (in the past 10 years). It rubs and hurts, so I was grateful.

After that, I heard “MRSGREGWILLIS!!!” yelled out – and it was my favorite pacer (Carla) and Adrian and Abbie. I’d never met Adrian and Abbie in real life, but we all are running fam on Instagram. It was great to see them and run with them for a little bit while they helped Carla tackle (CRUSH!) her first full. Unfortunately, I knew what my knee needed and I had to hang back and go back to my 5/3 run walk pace, letting them go on without me.

Mile 6-7: West End Bridge – you were so nice to me this year. I even took a moment to snap a selfie because why not? Not too much to say about this part of the course but I got ‘er done.

Mile 7-8: West End has always been a favorite of mine and this year is no different. As I coasted down the hill, I noticed incredible back muscles on another runner and told her that she was looking strong as I passed – hopefully it gave her encouragement!

Three years ago, I found out that one of my college friends, “Grab”, was in the crowd there. I’d said “HEY” in the past and kept running, but this year I stopped to grab a drink from her and another college friend (also a Jen) and a selfie. We chatter for a minute or two then on I went – this race was about having FUN!

Mile 8-9: This is the mile with the JROTC lining the hill the goes under the incline. I’ve always made it a point to high-five as many of them as I could going up this hill and this year I decided to live stream it – I think on Instagram stories. After that, everything was oddly quiet and I started to worry about my sugar levels so I popped in my first Cherry Blossom Honey Stinger chew.

Mile 9-10: I had some PTSD on this mile. It’s where in 2017 I had an asthma attack (so I took my inhaler) and in 2018 watched someone fall. This year, for the first time, Greg didn’t make it over the bridge in time to see me (so maybe I was faster than I thought?). We texted a bit in this mile because I was saving energy for the next one.

Mile 10-11: This is the fastest and flatest mile, through the South Side. The gummy worms from UPMC were gone, but there was still a decent amount of Honey Stinger Energy Gel (thank you to the race partners for planning for us back-of-the-pack’ers!) and I drank it up while still running most of this mile. The thing is that the Mile 11 marker on the Birmingham Bridge was way too far away and my knee needed me to walk that bridge. You win some, you lose some.

Mile 11-12: This bridge is tough. Is there really anything else to say? It’s tough then followed by an uphill battle. I walked a bit of this because the knee was painful.

Mile 12-13: Thanks for the bubbles, spectators! This mile seems like the longest until you get to that 20K sign. I ran most of this one but struggled with wet bricks just before mile 13 and had to walk for safety. You can hear the roar of the crowd and this mile is just incredible.

Mile 13.1: The best part of the race – the finish! The crowd was still cheering, my VIP family was screaming their hearts out from the tent. It is just an incredible feeling to know that I’ve done this FIVE times now!

As I went through the Finish Line chute, I heard an ex-Giant Eagle co-worker behind me and we snapped photos, grabbed our goodies, and parted ways when I headed to find my family at the VIP lunch. We didn’t even realize it was pouring rain on us until we had our heat sheets (much needed) wrapped around us.

Although I didn’t need a medic on course, I decided before going to VIP to get ice for my knee. Thank you, medics!

That’s that! I am a FIVE TIME Half Marathoner with goals to 1) get my knee fixed and 2) not stop running. You’re going to have to stick around here to see what I’m up to next. Thank you God for this experience!

2019 Pittsburgh Half Marathon Results: 13.1 Miles, 14:40/mile

(Medals shown above – 5k, Relay, Half, and Steel Challenge)


Mother’s Day Flower Pots

The kids planted these flowers for me at church. As much as I wanted to preserve the *perfect* cleanliness of our rental vehicle, it is much like our lives- you can’t keep everything clean. Life is messy and looks different for each of us, just as these pots show.

Like some of you, I am a mother. Unlike some of you, I didn’t have a strong desire to become a mama and became one when I didn’t plan/wasn’t ready/wasn’t on my terms. But it was in God’s timing and His perfect (even if I still struggle with the circumstances) way. I didn’t have that wondering, that wanting to fill an empty womb that you might be facing. And while I can’t change that or change your situation, I can give you hope that God is in the waiting and stillness. He is ready to bless on His timing.
Or maybe your hands and heart are overflowing with an overwhelming abundance of little sticky hands and sassy attitudes like I have and you feel lost and alone and unsure when your YOU will resurface but you’re not wishing the days away. The moments are long but the years are fast. Your flowers might be strewn all over the world around you – maybe that chaos makes you happy or maybe it makes you desire a box to contain the mess. Maybe you love every single moment – even the ones when your four year old screams “I’m going to turn you to blood” and wish time would stand still. God sees you and knows your heart and I promise even those crazy moments have a purpose for greatness.
Whatever your life might look like at this very moment, on this holiday or any other day of the year, I want to encourage you that God loves you and sees you as His – dirt on the floor or blooming flowers. We can’t expect to keep everything clean and perfect or for someone to provide the box to fit all these things of life in. What we can expect is His love, mercy, and presence on the good days and the bad. Isn’t that beautiful?

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon: Part 2 of 3

The post below is part of a series of posts about the DICK’S Sporting Goods Pittsburgh Marathon weekend of events for which I have been selected to be a 2019 Pittsburgh Marathon official blogger. I’ve received my race registration fee in exchange for promotion of the event. All opinions are 100% my own.  This post also contains affiliate links. 

This past weekend was truly a dream come true – so full of words and memories that I’ve split this post into three posts so I don’t completely bore you. This is part two of three in my weekend wrap-up.

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: 5K

Saturday morning started out with the 5k. We were staying in the Omni William Penn (something I will definitely do again is stay downtown on race weekend and OWP is AMAZING), so I caught an early morning T over to the North Shore. Unfortunately, the bum knee made my walk across the street a bit slower than I’d hoped so I missed the T that would have made me make the #WeRunSocial photo opp by a mere minute. Gah!

I sipped on my Propel and ate a protein bar on the ride over – not my typical race day breakfast because we somehow forgot water for me to make my NUUN and I didn’t check to see if the hotel had a microwave for my sausage patties. The family had decided it wasn’t worth watching me get started and that they’d just see me at the finish line – great decision – so it was just me.

Since I’d tried to make the picture, I had a bit of extra time but this 5k crowd doesn’t play. The corrals were filling up and I could see the pacers were decently far ahead of where I was standing to get ready. I decided to jam in and instead of what I probably should have done (find Brandi and enjoy the 5k as a stroll), I found Victor and the 13:00/mile pace group. He was going to be doing a Galloway 30/30 split, so I decided to give it a try. I even met a new friend and ran some of the course with her.

While I’d never done the 30/30 split, I found myself feeling great while doing it. Heck, I was even sweaty in the cool of the morning in my tank top and Happy Puppies running shorts! I was getting a workout and my knee felt fine. There was a point where I thought we were going faster than 13:00/mile, but I was enjoying myself and didn’t want to focus on pace anyways…well, we did kick it up a bit on this course and I ended up “unofficially” setting a course PR because my 2018 time did not record correctly for some reason (I ran right beside the 13:00 pacer last year and my chip reads 58 seconds slower than her’s did) and we pulled off an official 12:45/mile this year! Woot! Take that, knee!

Thanks for getting me to the finish line, Victor!

Now, because I like to be honest with you, I’ll tell you that I don’t love the back of the pack in this particular 5k. There are a lot of people who run this race as their keystone event of the weekend which is great, but I watched three people get pushed to the ground by other runners just not being careful. Runners, we have to be respectful of the others out there on the course! I had two rocks kicked at me (I know it’s by accident, but again, take care) and was shocked at the number of potholes we still had on the streets. But all in all, I finished safely and that’s what matters.

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: The Kids Marathon

The family (aka, my biggest fans) was waiting for me at the Finish Line, so after we gathered my medal and banana, it was go time for the kids to make it over to the North Shore for their starting line. We took the T from Gateway and got the kids ready to go in their corral. Since all four kids ran it, we had to split up our runners into heats by age – the twins in Heat 7 and Bigs in Heat 8. We snapped a family photo and loved that our heats were in the middle of the heats this year – way less waiting than other years!

I was a bit nervous about how this was going to go. Ava has loved running and she was SO READY for weeks. Isla is a wild card – her training was one “run” on the trail that wasn’t more than step step rest. I had shown Ava where to go if she got lost at the end, but really wanted to try to keep up with her, even if it meant carrying Isla. Greg would be behind with Arianna and Evan if anything went wrong, so I just had to lean in and trust that God had this in control (as He does all things).

Those girls were READY, though! We spent a good amount of time high fiving the mascots and TJ Watt (mom fail for not getting photos) and then WE WERE OFF. Ava would run ahead then come back and check on Isla – it was too cute!

We were about halfway down the straight before the last turn when I heard, “Hi Mommy, bye Mommy” and Evan went shooting past us (having started five minutes behind us). Ava took off after him and they finished within seconds of each other. It kicked Isla into gear and we crossed the finish line just over 13:00 (even though the kids’ heats aren’t timed, I had my watch ready). Evan did it in just over 8 minutes – insane! We had our medals and I turned around and saw Ari and Greg – just a minute behind. I was so proud of those kids!

The Finish Line chute for the Kids Marathon is awesome – they get their water, bananas, fruit cups, and a goodie bag in addition to their medals. These little Runner of Steel moments are going to stick with my kids for years to come.

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: The VIP Experience (part two of three)

Another perk of the Official Blogger program was getting the VIP experience which included a great way to experience the Expo. When it was time to pick up my packet/bib, everything was ready for me at a table right inside the door of the Expo. I didn’t have to wait in lines to get bibs, circle around the vendors to get my bag, or worry about dropping my shirt or those sacred pins while I was shopping. I opted to just visit the booth last after I took in the Expo. What a great perk!

(In my case, I needed to get bibs for the kids and two of my relay team, so I did have to go through the lines but they really were not awful. It just was a nice way to experience the Expo.)

And speaking of the Expo – I had such a great time there that I had to go twice!

There were plenty of booths to test out the different gels/waffles/gummies/hydration options that the Marathon’s Partners sell and I easily got hooked on Honey Stinger’s Cherry Blossom gummies which made it into my pocket on Sunday. So good and way less sugar than other energy gel cubes I’d been using!

I got to see my friends from Brag Swag who had some amazing Burgh Swag that was unique and could be made right on site – and of course I had to pick up a new shirt which you can see on my Medal Monday Instagram post. Speaking of friends, it was great to bump into Chelsea (both days), Amanda, Carla, and Conrad along the way, too!

I joked about “going broke” via IG story and I did spend some nice cash while there. The best spend, hands down, was on Pro Compression socks – three pairs for just a little more than one normally costs. I’ve tried others and heard that these were the ones to try but I just didn’t have the $ to spend. This was the weekend to do it, and I’m so glad I was able to. I wore my socks on Friday and Saturday evening after logging a lot of steps around the city and then again on Sunday on the car ride to vacation. SO WORTH IT. Greg also picked up a BEDGEAR pillow with our sleep expert from Levin’s (he happened to be the guy who sold us our bed at the home show in 2018) and he’s loved sleeping on it so far (I’m jelly, but there is a nice deal in the virtual goody bag that I might redeem).

So much more to cover, but for now it’s time to get back to the family. I know you’re waiting in suspense to hear how I feel about how things turned out for me on Sunday. Keep your eyes on this page for part three, coming soon!

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon: Part 1 of 3

The post below is part of a series of posts about the DICK’S Sporting Goods Pittsburgh Marathon weekend of events for which I have been selected to be a 2019 Pittsburgh Marathon official blogger. I’ve received my race registration fee in exchange for promotion of the event. All opinions are 100% my own.  This post also contains affiliate links. 

This past weekend was truly a dream come true and a weekend of setting some goals (anyone else reading/read Girl, Stop Apologizing?) So much so that I needed to split this post into three posts so I don’t completely bore you.

Spoiler alert (because I’m pretty sure that most of you reading are following me on Instagram, you’re an IRL (in real life) friend/family, or we’re pals on Facebook), my “dream” to chase a PR in 2019 did not come true, it was by far my slowest half marathon ever, but I DID IT. Let’s focus on the weekend and why I’m already looking forward to my next race!

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: Meeting a Champion

If you want to be in the know, you follow the DICK’S Sporting Goods Pittsburgh Marathon on Facebook and keep up with their events. That is where you’ll hear about things like the kick-off training runs, kids’ events, and opportunities to meet and greet runners who will make you want to live louder.

On Thursday, Levin’s and BEDGEAR (a Partner of the DICK’S Sporting Goods Pittsburgh Marathon) hosted an event to show off the amazing products in the BEDGEAR family but also to meet and greet with Stephanie Bruce. Stephanie is an American elite long-distance runner and a BEDGEAR ambassador…and she WON the 2019 USATF Half Marathon Championships here in Pittsburgh over the weekend.

Stephanie Bruce BEDGEAR

At the launch party (which was super chill), I got to chat with her a little bit. Although she is super fit and about the size of my arm (see above), she didn’t judge me for my size but instead urged me to Dream Big and to have a great race. I joked with her “good luck beating me on Sunday”, we talked about staying in hotels with kids (she’s a mom) and sleeping well before race day. It calmed some of the nerves I had about the weekend ahead of meeting new people and sleeping in a hotel room with the kids the night before race day.

(And while I’ll never be an elite runner like Stephanie, it made me realize I need to work on my goals to become an ambassador for running brands I believe in. You guys proved that to me when I was selected as an official blogger and you used my referral code enough times for me to earn that hotel room through the official blogger referral rewards program! I need to DREAM BIG, indeed!)

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: The Social Center

As part of my “duties”, I was asked to do something I’ve been wanting to do again since 2014 (but either the timing never worked out or I was not selected to help) – serve in the Social Center. That means that on Friday I was the “voice” of the marathon’s social media – specifically their Facebook messages. While things were quiet, I got to do what I love most (helping people), using the tool I love most (Salesforce), for the weekend I love most (the Pittsburgh Marathon weekend). It was a great way to give back to the organization (P3R Events) that put their faith and trust in me to be a voice in the Pittsburgh running community (and beyond) in my role as an official blogger.

To Jonah, Jordan, and the rest of the P3R Events staff and volunteers – THANK YOU for making me smile in a way I haven’t in a long time. You helped me fill a void I didn’t realize had been missing in my career. And who knows…maybe one day you’ll need a **rockstar** Salesforce Admin? 😉

2019 Pittsburgh Marathon Weekend: The VIP Experience (part one of three)

Another perk of the Official Blogger program was getting the VIP experience – and in my case, I earned enough rewards to gift VIP to two spectators (my husband and oldest daughter) and two runners (the amazing SCRR pacer, Carla, and an inspiring Instagram run/walk/runner, Renee).

Psst – if you’re on the fence about VIP for future events, DO IT. I’ll go into more details, but kids 8 and under get in with their VIP chaperone so my whole family actually got the VIP treatment. You’ll need to read all three of my wrap-up posts to get all the benefits, but it is SO worth it.

For this post, I’m going to focus on what might have been the capstone event of the weekend. I was invited to the VIP Cocktail Reception on Friday night and was excited to get to relax a little and meet others who love this organization like I do. What I didn’t realize is how much I’d cry at the event!

You see, Patrice Matamoros (race director and CEO of P3R Events) not only served her 11th and final race with that title, but she is the reason why I started to run in this event in the first place. As the team was spotlighting her accomplishments over the last 11 years and she handed the “baton” to Troy Schooley (who I’m certain is not going to disappoint, either!), I was in tears because the things her friends, family, staff, and peers were saying about her were the things that made me want to run.

In one of my few tweets from the weekend, I shared how she inspired me in a crowd of Chatham Women Entrepreneurs to run for my kids – to give them the legacy love of a lifelong sport. I knew the next day that my four running buddies would all lace up their sneakers (okay, only one actually did, but more on that next post) and run this city with me because of me.

Me. Their mama who once weighed 300 pounds. Me. Their mama who cheated running the mile in high school. Me. Their mama who definitely doesn’t have the typical runner’s body (and that has fluctuated so much in the past four years – up, down, up again) but keeps lacing her shoes and loving her body healthy. Me. Their mama who inspires their daddy to move (even though it looks like he’d be the one inspiring her). Me. Their mama who can only explain her love of running as a way to show her kiddos that she loves them so much she does this for them.

Phew. Glad to get that out one more time! All the emotions.

After the ceremony portion of the evening, I said goodnight to the amazing Erin Carlin (who wrangled us official bloggers, helped me with silly questions, cheered me on so much, and made me realize my voice matters as a writer in Pittsburgh) and thought I was headed home. That’s when I ran into Brandi (another Official Blogger), her friend Jeff (who from what I can tell is an awesome running coach), and Sue (who I’d been following on Twitter) and her husband Kevin (who love this city probably even more than I do – if that’s possible – and aren’t even Pittsburgh locals).  I stuck around to chat with them and realized I need to find more running friends to “talk shop” with on weekends that don’t start with “Pittsburgh Marathon”.

Pittsburgh Marathon Bloggers

What a great start to the weekend – and there is so much more to share. You’ll just have to be patient with me as I balance writing with spending much needed catch-up time with my family who cheered me on like **rockstars** this weekend, put up with my training schedule, and have dealt with my crazy emotions over the past seven months – we’re taking a much deserved time to focus on US!